When I was on vacation earlier this month, I made a resolution that I would start putting my heart into everything I do. This includes dating and seeking my life partner. What I mean by "putting my heart into" it is that I will do it sincerely, and with the expectation that I will succeed. I have always been a Pollyanna, or seemed it in the eyes of others, but I don't find it overly optimistic. Sincerity and weeding out cynicism is only the minimum you can do to grow and become a better person. It is about seeing every situation as part of your learning.
Already, I am getting a lot of support from the people around me. It was scary (I am only human) to put my heart out there and tell everyone I am looking for my life partner, and am currently sooooo single. However, people seem to like it. A couple people have already told me they know a single guy I might be interested in. And, I am getting the attention of my male friends, who are fascinated, and, who knows? some may ask me out!
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