Should I call/text? It's easy to tell.

Keeping a balance between kindness and maintaining boundaries can be difficult. I went on a first (and last!) date on Saturday and the guy texted me the next day. That could have been nice if it had been a friendly and no-obligation "thank you." he was just like what's up? I said I was busy and I would text him later. He was really pissed when I hadn't texted him back by the next afternoon, he said "I don't think we're a good match." I said that was fine and he had my best wishes. But. . .that wasn't the last I heard! Sheesh! Word to the wise: don't text or call someone unless you're pretty darn sure they WANT you the call them. Like you say: "I'll call you next week (tomorrow is too soon, people)." and they say: "Awesome!"

Both of you should be trying to decide IF you would eventually commit the the other person. You are not in a "relationship" yet. You are in a beautiful zone of uncertainty and possibility. It is pleasurable - tap into some hedonism and enjoy it!