Saturday, June 9, 2012

An outsider asks me where the "safe neighborhoods" are

I went to the gas station to buy a couple necessities.  I walk by necessity as I don't own a car.  Walking down the street from my apartment building, I pass a corner surrounded by a variety of businesses (art galleries, coffee shops, restaurants, etc), then I pass renovated Victorian homes with gorgeous yards, a boarded up building, and row house-type apartments.  The houses are occupied mostly, not entirely, by white couples and families while the apartments tend to be occupied by black families.  There are also a lot of hipsters in the neighborhood, but I believe they live as roommates in nearby houses.

I got to the gas station parking lot, and a man spotted me and immediately headed towards me.  I must have looked taken aback because he was sort of apologetic.  He's like, I don't mean any harm.  I just moved here and some of the neighborhoods don't look very safe.  I saw a white woman walking alone, and I thought "That's a good sign."  What are the neighborhoods like here?  Are they mixed?

OK, I thought.  Do I tell the story of gentrification, or do I tell the story of "urban renewal"?

I was like, yeah, they're mixed. He's like, I know I'm not white.  Then he said something about the racialized state of society in North Carolina, where he's from.  I was like, "Well, I hope we can overcome seeing class in a racialized way.  In this neighborhood it is pretty hard to judge by color.  I feel safe here, though there are some neighborhoods nearby that have serious issues."

He was appreciative.

Talk about being put on the spot.  But I am glad I had the opportunity to break through someone's stereotype about color's connection to "safe neighborhoods."

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